Cubicle Conundrum - Day 69

Q’s Lessons in Managing Work Relationships:



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Hi. Today we’ll be dealing with ‘Happiness’ or ‘Joy’. Many times at work, or a few times in the case of a Software Engineer, you will find reasons to be happy.



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Q: Wow. I just got put in Performance band “A” for my work so far.

N: Really?

Q: Yeah this is great!



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It is however, important to keep your emotions under control. Demonstrating too much happiness tends to de-motivate those around you who might not have received the same reason to be happy.



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N: Well this is a good thing. I’m happy for you.



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Always acknowledge well wishers, especially if this places you in a better position than them. Some modesty would help. Being modest puts you back on equal terms and in good terms with your colleague. Being modest by saying your achievement isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, invites some deserving praise from your colleague, followed by a friendly end to the conversation…



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Q: Thank you, N. But we all know these ratings don’t really mean anything anyway.

N: Hmm you’re right. You should stop wasting your time and get back to work.



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…Unless your colleague is N.



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